Princeton
in retirement’s service How tastes and values formed at college help prepare
for a second act
By Bruce A. Cogan ’73
We all know that a Princeton education provides a sound foundation
for a satisfying career, say as a professor of Romance languages,
a family physician, a hedge fund manager, or even the majority leader
of the Senate. The question that I, a member of the Class of ’73,
and others of my vintage have is how well that education –
by now a speck in our experiential rear view mirror – will
serve us in retirement.
After completing the Woodrow Wilson program at Princeton, I joined
many of my Woody Woo classmates in a lemming-like rush to law school.
And after law school my career followed a familiar trajectory, first
indentured to a few private law firms and then serving as in-house
tax counsel for a brand-name company. The work, untangling the intricacies
of the Internal Revenue Code, determined the rhythms of my life
for 23 years.
After 23 years it had become increasingly clear that it was time
for me to go, as colleagues had begun to thank me a bit too effusively
for my institutional memory and my 9-year-old had stopped formally
noting my absences from the family dinner table while I was away
at the office. After a particularly satisfying trip to Europe with
my family, I decided that it was time to announce my retirement,
to commence during the summer of 2007.
The responses of my colleagues to the announcement ran the gambit
from disbelief to begrudging congratulations. But the most prevalent
response was: “What are you going to do to fill your time?”
At first I was slightly taken aback by that question. Then it hit
me: What was I going to do to replace the early-morning calls to
Asia and late-night drafting sessions that had become part of my
work-a-day routine?
My old job and my law school education provided little in the
way of inspiration. What I was essentially looking for was a source
for how to conduct a new life, and for that I found myself increasingly
reflecting on my time at Princeton.
Initially, I reflected on my experience with music at Princeton.
During my sophomore year in 1970, I joined the Princeton Glee Club.
My motivation was not primarily music; it was girls. Indeed, one
year after coeducation was introduced at Princeton, young women
were scarce, and I hoped that the Glee Club’s trips to the
Seven Sisters colleges would fill that lacuna.
I came for the girls but stayed for the music. (To be honest,
the off-campus girls didn't exactly flock to Princeton boys in cumberbunds,
singing oratorios in high falsettos.) More than 35 years later,
I still remember our hyperactive conductor, Walter (Wally) Nollner,
exhorting us: “When you sing ‘Do you remember the inn,
Miranda?’ the audience has to feel your sweat.”
Armed with that moist memory and little else, I auditioned for
and inexplicably was chosen to join a venerable choir in Manhattan.
As a result, one of the ways I’m going to fill some of my
time after retirement is by singing celestial chorale music –
music first introduced to me at Princeton – in the great music
venues of New York City.
Something else stuck to me from my days at Princeton: the call
to action inherent in “Princeton in the nation’s service.”
My wife, Robin Block ’75, and I have been enthusiastic supporters
of a charity in New York City, Coalition for the Homeless, that
fulfills the Biblical dictates to feed the hungry and house the
homeless. In retirement, we plan to redouble our efforts to improve
the funding and the reach of this essential organization as Princetonians
in New York City’s service.
Finally, at Princeton, through our incandescent professors, I
developed my writing muscles and received encouragement from several
to make a living using my words. One in particular, the soft-spoken
but inspiring English professor, Robert Wickenheiser, encouraged
me to pursue a career in journalism. Though in going into law I
took the road more traveled, after a 35-year hiatus I think I’m
ready to test the journalistic waters.
So how are we, the Beatles generation, going to fill our time
as we leave our careers behind? I have found – as may many
of you – that tastes and values incubated more than three
decades ago at Princeton can be reinvigorated in retirement. Indeed,
we didn’t realize it, but in and in between classes on our
verdant campus, we were laying the foundation for a rich second
act.