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J. P. O'CONNOR '97
A member of the men's ice-hockey team, O'Connor lives in Otterburn, Quebec. He is a politics major and a member of Cap and Gown Club.
I feel very fortunate to be a hockey player. When you come to Princeton as a freshman, it can be really intimidating. But when I got here, I had 30 friends-guaranteed-because I had my teammates. Kids who come here without that must panic at first. At the end of my sophomore year, I had shoulder surgery and missed a significant amount of class right before finals. As a result, I didn't do well, and I was put on academic probation. Junior year was particularly difficult for me despite the team's fantastic year. It was a season I wasn't too proud of: the coach and I weren't seeing eye to eye, and I didn't realize some personal goals.
When hockey isn't going well, I'm genuinely not a happy person, or student. It was a snowball effect: Hockey started to go badly and classes followed. I was forced to miss what would have been the first semester of my senior year. When I came back, [Associate Athletic Director] George VanderZwagg, the NCAA compliance officer at Princeton, said I couldn't be on the ice when the team was on the ice, I couldn't go on the road with them, I couldn't work out in the gym with them. So I had to stretch the boundary of being a student and an athlete and find other people to be with. I had to go searching, and I'm a better person for it.
Even with everything that's happened to me, I know Princeton has given me more academically than I could ever imagine. It has made me an infinitely smarter person. I tell people to take advantage of everything this school has to offer. You won't have time to do it all, but do as much as is humanly possible.